Now at the ripe old age of 21, I thought it might be a good time to reflect on what I've learnt in the past couple years; after all the teenage years are notoriously turbulent, full of ups and downs and a constant struggle to find your identity. So, after having a little think here are 16 pieces of advice I would give to my 16 year old self.
1) Set Goals and Develop Passions
Passion is the spice of life, it's what keeps things interesting and motivates us to get out of bed in the morning. Without passions and goals life can feel a little stagnant, so setting goals is important not only for personal achievement but for contentment in life. Goals don't have to be huge impossible tasks, no matter how small a goal is still a goal, and the feeling you get from reaching it is incredible.
2) Don't Fear Judgement
Along a similar vein, don't hide your passions or let them die for fear of what other people might think. So many people regret the things they didn't do, and say to themselves things like 'if only I'd never given up the piano'. Nobody wants to live their life wondering 'What if?', so give your passions your best shot, and don't care too much about what other people think.
3) Get a Job
I didn't get a job until I was nearly eighteen, as soon as I started my first job I quickly realised what I had been missing out on. Part time work is a great way to expand your social circles and meet new people, all while earning a little extra cash and developing skills that will look great on your CV.
4) Be More Active
I always regret not getting into sport and exercise when I was younger. As a (sort of) adult I've yet to find many ways of exercising which I actually enjoy. Partly due to my unfamiliarity with sport which used to leave me embarrassed as I didn't quite have the confidence to put my self out there and try to take part.
5) Try New Things
So many people develop their hobbies and passions during adolescence, there is so much out there to try but often it requires you to step out of your comfort zone, and even sometimes to do something without the safety net of a friend their to hold your hand. The more I try new things the more independent and confident I feel, to the point now where I will give almost anything a go. I could really have used a bit of that mantra in my teens.
6) Make Education a Priority
Education is the number one way to change your life and achieve social mobility. The exams you take may be stressful and seem pointless but an education is the one thing that can never be taken away from you. Its value is priceless, some people don't even get the chance to have an education so its certainly not something to be squandered, even if social events and Netflix may seem more appealing.
7) Ditch Toxic Friendships
As you get older you'll quickly realise the people who bring you down in life and the people who put you in a great mood. The people who only seem to complain and cause drama are not the people that will help you along the way in life. You don't need them and you'll probably find yourself doing much better once they are out of the picture. Oh, and just because you've known someone a long time doesn't mean you need to stay friends with them.
8) Make New Friends
Yep, new friends are to be found on every corner. In a few months time you'll be amazed to think that you haven't known these people your whole life. Its always an amazing feeling when you click with someone instantly and seem to have lots in common. A lot of people seem to find it difficult making new friends as they get older, but its all about putting yourself out there, most of the time people are open to new friendships if only you initiate it.
9) Don't Feel Obliged To Wear Makeup All The Time
At 16 you probably wouldn't have seen me out of the house without a full face of makeup. At the time I didn't really see that this was a problem, only now I see what an unhealthy standard this was to set for myself. Makeup should be expressive and fun, not a mask to wear because you're worried of what people might think. These days I feel perfectly comfortable to go out of the house sans makeup, and when I do wear makeup I wear if for me, not for anyone else.
10) Spend Time With Family
It seems like only yesterday I would spend lazy Sundays with my family, binge watching TV with my siblings or chatting to mum and dad over a cup of tea. These are the things I really miss now that I'm at uni and I only get to see my family once a month or so. Uni holidays are a godsend but they don't come round often enough.
11) Read More
There are so many wonderful stories to be told and heard, its only now that I'm at uni I don't seem to have time to read for pleasure. I still value the impact a great story can have on you, but I wish I had read more when I was in sixth form, there's really no better way to expand your mind and challenge yourself.
12) Spend Your Time Wisely
Develop new skills, make lasting memories, spend time doing the things you love. As you get older truly free time seems to disappear into thin air, and you'll never have more free time than when you're at school, college and sixth form. It is so true that you don't realise how good you've got it until its too late.
13) Spend Money On Experiences
As I said above, making memories is a surefire way to ensure you don't regret the way you spend your hard earned wages. What could you do with that £20? Spend it on dinner at an average restaurant or use it to take your little sister to play mini golf, I think its pretty obvious which one you'll remember better a few years down the line.
14) Visit Your Grandparents
My Grandparents were a huge part of my childhood but I can certainly say I drifted from them during my teens. Its only now that I've realised they aren't going to be around much longer that I've had the wake up call to spend as much time with them as possible. Its clear to see how much it means to them when I stop by for a visit, I only wish I had realised this sooner.
15) Constantly Push yourself
It's all too easy to sit back on your laurels when you have a few achievements under your belt, however what makes the real difference is what you do after that. Never give up, never stop searching for the next opportunity, always try to better yourself because there's so much out there, every person has potential, but it's up to the individual to tap into it.
16) Experiment With Fashion
I've only started stepping out of my comfort zone with fashion in the past year, trying out brighter colours and different styles. Its easy to settle into your typical style but every once in a while its good to try something completely different from your usual. I always find it an amazing confidence boost when I try something new and love the way it looks, that kind of boost has an all round positive effect, after all when we look good we feel good too.
So, there we have it. 16 pieces of advice to my 16 year old self, for now I will try and take some of my own advice and use this reflectional piece to better myself and get the most out of uni. It's really blowing my mind how fast the year is going, I know it'll be over in the blink of an eye and I want to be able to be look back and be proud of myself.
That being said, I shall attempt to share how Louis and I made the most of our Disney day, as well as a few other tips.
We visited on the 13th of June which was classed as 'super off peak', although the park was still very busy!
In my previous post I spoke about how to pick the best day of the week to visit Disney by using the MagiParc App, following on from the same method I'm also going to show you how to pick the best times to go on the more popular rides.
Arriving at the park:
We travelled by train from central Paris which was relatively
cheap and stress free, DLP has its own train station called Marne-la-Vallée
which brings you out in Disney Village about a 2 min walk from the park gates.
Before you can enter the parks you need to go through security, for
me this was one of the most confusing parts of the day as we had only just
arrived out of the train station to find three separate security entrances with
no signage to tell us which one we needed to use.
We erred on the side of caution and joined the longest
queue however after some research I have since found out that there
are 3 security gates you can enter through 1. by the train station, 2. by hotel
New York, 3. by McDonald's.
Shown below are the various security entrances in relation to the train station and Disney Village, make sure to allow plenty of time to get through security so you can make the most of the time in the park.
Shown below are the various security entrances in relation to the train station and Disney Village, make sure to allow plenty of time to get through security so you can make the most of the time in the park.
Itinerary for the Day:
11am
Louis and I headed for Walt Disney Studios Park first as it was due to close at 6pm. As soon as we were inside we made a beeline for Ratatoullie to try and get a fastpass. At 11am Ratatouille was giving out fast passes for 3:30pm! At this point I wasn't quite sure what to do, my plans had gone out the window, I was hoping to get multiple fast passes throughout the day, but I knew that if I took the fastpass for Ratatouille I wouldn't be able to use one on any of the other rides until 3:30pm.
Louis and I took a few minutes figuring out what to do before swiftly joining the fastpass queue, when we got to the front we had another issue and were unable to get our paper tickets to scan, we called a cast member over to help us but she struggled as well saying it was a common problem. Minutes went by and the fastpass return time was going up and up, after 15 minutes of problems, and many other families having the same issue the CM rang for support only to be quickly be told there were no more fast passes for today. You can imagine my disappointment, by 11:20 fastpasses had completely run out; needless to say it was a frustrating start to the day.
After this we were keen to just get on something, we saw that the Studio Tram Tour had a queue of just 15 minutes so we decided to give it a go. At 11:30, just before joining the STT queue I checked at Tower of Terror and managed to get us fastpasses for 2:30 which cheered me up.
Louis and I headed for Walt Disney Studios Park first as it was due to close at 6pm. As soon as we were inside we made a beeline for Ratatoullie to try and get a fastpass. At 11am Ratatouille was giving out fast passes for 3:30pm! At this point I wasn't quite sure what to do, my plans had gone out the window, I was hoping to get multiple fast passes throughout the day, but I knew that if I took the fastpass for Ratatouille I wouldn't be able to use one on any of the other rides until 3:30pm.
Louis and I took a few minutes figuring out what to do before swiftly joining the fastpass queue, when we got to the front we had another issue and were unable to get our paper tickets to scan, we called a cast member over to help us but she struggled as well saying it was a common problem. Minutes went by and the fastpass return time was going up and up, after 15 minutes of problems, and many other families having the same issue the CM rang for support only to be quickly be told there were no more fast passes for today. You can imagine my disappointment, by 11:20 fastpasses had completely run out; needless to say it was a frustrating start to the day.
After this we were keen to just get on something, we saw that the Studio Tram Tour had a queue of just 15 minutes so we decided to give it a go. At 11:30, just before joining the STT queue I checked at Tower of Terror and managed to get us fastpasses for 2:30 which cheered me up.
I wasn't really sure what to expect from the Studio Tram Tour but both Louis and I thoroughly enjoyed not only seeing the various props from classic Disney films but also the special effects scene which completely blew us away! The tram tour was a great way to 'get the ball rolling' on our Disney day and I imagine would be a great relief for tired feet later on in the day.
12pm
Next we made our way to the Art of Animation Studio, this was a 5 minute wait to go in and lasted 30 minutes. However, I feel this is the one attraction we would have skipped if we could change something about the day. The whole thing was rather dated and geared towards much younger children, I feel the 35 mins could have been better spent queuing for another ride. One saving grace of the attraction was the chance to learn how to doodle signature disney characters and take your drawing away as a keepsake, I didn't attempt this though as the queue to take part was almost exclusively under 10s.
12pm
Next we made our way to the Art of Animation Studio, this was a 5 minute wait to go in and lasted 30 minutes. However, I feel this is the one attraction we would have skipped if we could change something about the day. The whole thing was rather dated and geared towards much younger children, I feel the 35 mins could have been better spent queuing for another ride. One saving grace of the attraction was the chance to learn how to doodle signature disney characters and take your drawing away as a keepsake, I didn't attempt this though as the queue to take part was almost exclusively under 10s.
1pm
By now it was 1pm, I had been continually checking the Magiparc app for updated waiting times. Crush's Coaster was showing a 65 min wait time, which although lengthy was the shortest wait time I had seen in the past two hours so we joined the queue. I wasn't too sure what to expect from Crush as the Finding Nemo theming may lead you to believe it was a kids ride, however it turned out to be one of fastest rides at the park and one of our favourite rides. I'm so glad we managed to ride Crush's coaster, it was well worth the wait especially as its an exclusive ride to DLP.
By now it was 1pm, I had been continually checking the Magiparc app for updated waiting times. Crush's Coaster was showing a 65 min wait time, which although lengthy was the shortest wait time I had seen in the past two hours so we joined the queue. I wasn't too sure what to expect from Crush as the Finding Nemo theming may lead you to believe it was a kids ride, however it turned out to be one of fastest rides at the park and one of our favourite rides. I'm so glad we managed to ride Crush's coaster, it was well worth the wait especially as its an exclusive ride to DLP.
Adrenaline at a high after Crush's Coaster we came out to see the single rider time for Ratatouille was showing just 10 min! We knew this meant we would be separated, however weighed against the possibility of not managing to get on Ratatouille at all it seemed like a no brainer. The wait was really more like 5 min as we practically walked straight on. Honestly the ride was amazing, I felt completely immersed in the 4D ride and can now see why the ride is so immensely popular. I'm so glad we got to experience Ratatouille, Louis was just in the carriage just in front of me so he didn't feel too far away. Single rider worked so well for us here, I'm really glad we gave it a chance.
2:30pm
By this time Louis and I had decided that ToT was a little too far out of our comfort zone for one day, so we headed to the back of the ToT queue and gave away our fastpasses to two young girls. They looked super pleased so I wasn't too bothered about missing the ride, we were both happy to spread a little pixie dust.
By this time Louis and I had decided that ToT was a little too far out of our comfort zone for one day, so we headed to the back of the ToT queue and gave away our fastpasses to two young girls. They looked super pleased so I wasn't too bothered about missing the ride, we were both happy to spread a little pixie dust.
We headed over to Toy Story Play land and I was
blown away by the impressive theming. Between the toy soldiers ride, RC racer
and all the giant figurines I really felt like I has been shrunk down to toy
size. I really feel like this is the heart and soul of Disney, and a fantastic
addition to the park. Slinky Dog Spin, was just a 10
min wait at this time, I loved this ride and the theming in particular,
we would've liked to try out the other two Toy Story rides but
the queues were too long at this point.
3:30pm
At this point we took a slow walk over to the main Disneyland Park, stopping for plenty of wonderful photos along the way. Main Street truly captured the magic of Disney and we could have spent hours wandering along the little street looking in the quaint boutiques and amazing attention to detail on the buildings, I'm sure when we do make it back to DLP we will be there for longer. We stopped for a quick lunch, I had a croq monsieur and coke which was filling, tasty and not too expensive.
After lunch we continued down to check out The Dragon in the Castle which was a great photo op, and another fantastic addition to the park.
4:15pm
4:15pm
Checking back on the Magiparc app Buzz Lightyear listed 15min queue so we quickly headed over there. When we joined the queue the wait was more like 30 or 35 mins. The wait overall wasn't too bad but the queue goes through long winding corridors which might causes problems for some people who don't like enclosed spaces. The ride was nicely themed however the first time went on one of the guns was broken which did spoil the fun a bit, they did let us ride again without waiting which was nice. This extended wait and re-ride did cut into the time we wanted to spend at other places but I'm glad we did get to experience the ride properly as it really is a classic.
When we came out we hoped to head to the Alice in Wonderland Maze or on the Steam Boat, however we didn't realise that both of these shut at 5pm.
5:30pm
Next we took a walk through Adventureland stopping at The Robinson Crusoe Treehouse (the view from the top is amazing!) and Aladdins Walk Through. Again these are wonderful examples of the attention to detail that Disney is famous for, the whole experience of the different lands can really leave you feeling like you've been transported somewhere exotic. We gave our feet a rest and sat with an ice cream while taking in the atmosphere, i must say that Adventureland really reminds me of Epcot in the WDW park.
Whilst the day was winding down we decided to pack in as many rides as we could so we walked into Fantasyland and queued up for some of the classic rides like the Spinning Tea cups (10min wait) and the Carousel (showed a 10min wait but was more like 20).
7pm
At 7pm we made our way to Phantom manor, another classic ride which I was adamant for Louis to experience. We only waited about 20 mins here which was one of the lowest wait times I'd seen all day. This was another fantastic ride which completely immersed us in the story, I can only imagine how cool the park must look during Halloween.
8pm
At 8pm the wait times were really dropping dramatically, Big Thunder Mountain one of our 'must do' rides had only a 30 min queue. This was by far my favourite ride of the day, it struck the perfect balance between scary and fun, I honestly think we could've gone on this ride five times in a row.
Other rides such as Indiana Jones were showing super short waits of just 5 mins, so we definitely could have squeezed in a few more rides. It was great to see almost every ride in the park with a short wait, this just goes to show that even if you miss out on fastpasses you can still fit in the rides you want if you stick it out til the park gets quieter and a lot of people have headed off home or for dinner.
At 8pm the wait times were really dropping dramatically, Big Thunder Mountain one of our 'must do' rides had only a 30 min queue. This was by far my favourite ride of the day, it struck the perfect balance between scary and fun, I honestly think we could've gone on this ride five times in a row.
Other rides such as Indiana Jones were showing super short waits of just 5 mins, so we definitely could have squeezed in a few more rides. It was great to see almost every ride in the park with a short wait, this just goes to show that even if you miss out on fastpasses you can still fit in the rides you want if you stick it out til the park gets quieter and a lot of people have headed off home or for dinner.
Our last ride of the day was Dumbo which was just another short 10min wait. We actually rode Dumbo twice in a row as we couldn't figure out how to get him to the top the first time...oops. Although many might this this a kids ride it had a lot of sentimental value to Louis and I and also provided amazing views of the park and castle just as sun was beginning to set.
10:30pm
By now we were getting towards the park closing, we debated going on a few more rides and would've loved to stay and watch the fireworks as they're supposed to be magical but alas we had to make sure we didn't miss the last train back to Paris! We hopped on the train thoroughly exhausted with a Maccies in hand, thoroughly dazzled by the magic of Disney.
How to spend less time queuing:
One of the biggest dilemmas we faced was decided whether to join an long queue for a ride we really wanted to go on or whether to risk it wait, hoping that the wait time would go down. The best way I've found to tackle this is by using the graph feature on the Magiparc app. This shows you a graph of the waiting times on any particular day for each ride. So for example, I would click on the day before our visit and try to compare that with the wait times for that day. So if the ride is showing a wait time of 90 mins but the graph shows an average wait time of 60 mins then I think it would be safe to sit it out, as its pretty likely that the wait time will decrease sometime soon.
Here are some examples of the rides we looked at then deciding whether to join the queue or not.
TIPS:
- aim to arrive by 9:30, this way you'll be in the park and on rides by 10am.
- use one of the other entrances besides the main gate for speedier entry to the park.
- take your own snack packs from home to save money and keep yourself from staving in the queues
- bring a portable phone charger. I was gutted when my phone died and I couldn't take any more photos!
- comfy shoes are a must, you'll be surprised just how much walking you do
- list your top 5 'must do' rides and aim to do these first, count anything else as a bonus, and you wont go wrong!
- try to pick up a second fastpass before heading onto your first fastness ride, this gets you on more rides quicker
- make the most of the end of the day and the parades when rides are usually quieter
- try not to get the Disney blues, the park can be overwhelming at times and trying to stick to an exact plan is impossible, its better to try and go with the flow and enjoy the day. After all, you are at the most magical place on earth!
Summary
This may have been our first visit to Disneyland Paris but it certainly wont be our last.
Special thanks:
This post was inspired by the lovely authors of Never Ending Voyage, whose blog post was of great help to Louis and I when attempting to sketch out a rough plan of the day.
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